Another bullied child was found hanging in a closet recently, as a stark reminder that bullying can have dire consequences. Jaheem Herrera was your average 11 year old boy, he did well at school and was fairly outgoing. Unfortunately his mother and sister found him hanging by his belt in the closet.
The school itself is saying it does everything possible to combat bullying, but I have the feeling that the following procedure
“Students are even asked to sign a no-bullying pledge. ”
Does sweet fuck all.
When I was younger I took a fair amount of abuse, this amounted to bullying, but I am actually glad of this now I lok back, it built my character, helped me learn to look after myself and I realised that bullies tend to target those who have something socially wrong with them in the first place.
It was when I realised this that I overcame any intimidation and pushing myself to develop all my personal as well as academic skills. So in a way, the bullying helped me.
I think preventing any form of bullying or name calling could infact harm more children than it help, it would stop them learning from each other what is strange or abnormal, and could lead to one hell of a lot of personality disorders in the future.
Now obviously this is a blanket statement, name calling up to the point that a child hangs himself is very, very wrong, maybe the bully them-self should be charged with a crime to balance off their personality. I think it is important however to find the fine dividing line where the victim shied away from self improvement and turned to self mutilation.
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